Mediation V Court

Why Choose Mediation? (Mediation vs Court)

A Better Path Through Separation

When a relationship ends, you face many decisions — about your home, finances, and children. How those decisions are made can shape your future.

Mediation provides a calm, private, and structured alternative to court. It helps you and your former partner make decisions together, guided by a neutral mediator. You stay in control of the outcome, rather than leaving it to a judge

Mediation vs Court — The Key Differences

• Privacy Completely confidential v Public record
• Control You make the decisions  v Judge makes the decisions
• Time Weeks or months v Often 12–24 months
• Cost Typically €2,200pp total  v Often €12,000–€15,000 per person
• Tone Collaborative v Adversarial
• Impact on Children Encourages cooperation v Often increases tension
• Future Relationship Builds communication  v Can damage communication

Supported by the Mediation Act 2017

The Mediation Act 2017 encourages separating couples to consider mediation before going to court.

It sets out the rights, confidentiality, and voluntary nature of the process — ensuring that mediation is fair, transparent, and respectful.

"Mediation doesn't erase the past — it helps shape a better future."

Compare the Costs

Going to court can be costly, time-consuming, and emotionally draining. Mediation, by contrast, offers a shorter, more affordable route to resolution.

Typical Costs (Ireland):

Solicitor: €200–€300 per hour

Barrister: €250–€600 per hour

Circuit Court Divorce (legal fees): €12,000–€15,000 per person and above

Mediation (6 sessions): Approx. €2200per person

(Figures based on 2025 Irish family law averages. For guidance only.

Save time, save money — and protect your peace of mind.