Mediation V Court

Why Choose Mediation? (Mediation vs Court)

A Better Path Through Separation

When a relationship ends, you face many decisions — about your home, finances, and children. How those decisions are made can shape your future.

Mediation provides a calm, private, and structured alternative to court. It helps you and your former partner make decisions together, guided by a neutral mediator. You stay in control of the outcome, rather than leaving it to a judge

Mediation vs Court — The Key Differences

Mediation Court

Privacy Completely confidential v Public record

Control You make the decisions  v Judge makes the decisions

Time Weeks or months v Often 12–24 months

Cost Typically €2,200pp total  v Often €12,000–€15,000 per person

Tone Collaborative v Adversarial

Impact on Children Encourages cooperation v Often increases tension

Future Relationship Builds communication  v Can damage communication

Supported by the Mediation Act 2017

The Mediation Act 2017 encourages separating couples to consider mediation before going to court.

It sets out the rights, confidentiality, and voluntary nature of the process — ensuring that mediation is fair, transparent, and respectful.

"Mediation doesn't erase the past — it helps shape a better future."

Compare the Costs

Going to court can be costly, time-consuming, and emotionally draining. Mediation, by contrast, offers a shorter, more affordable route to resolution.

Try our Cost Comparison Tool to see the difference.

Typical Costs (Ireland):

Solicitor: €200–€300 per hour

Barrister: €250–€600 per hour

Circuit Court Divorce (legal fees): €12,000–€15,000 per person and above

Mediation (6 sessions): Approx. €2200per person

(Figures based on 2025 Irish family law averages. For guidance only.

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